Walder Frey child of Merrett Frey
Not to be confused with Walder Frey, son of Frey (Game of Thrones) · Walder Frey, child of Jammos Frey · Walder Frey, son of Ryman Frey.
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The son of Merrett Frey and Mariya Darry, Walder Frey is called Walder the Small to set him apart from a cousin born just days after him and given the very same name. As a boy he is sent to Winterfell under the pact between House Stark and the Twins, and there he grows close to Rickon Stark while keeping his distance from Bran and his companions.
His name resurfaces years later attached to Ramsay Bolton, whose squire he becomes — a change that unsettles those who know him, as the burly boy starts behaving more and more like his new master.
Winterfell
Ward at Winterfell
When Catelyn Tully arrives at the Twins to treat with Lord Walder Frey, young Walder is there, and the pact sealing the alliance between the Freys and the Starks sends him to Winterfell as a ward. He had been born a mere 52 days before a cousin sharing his own name, so in the North they tell them apart by calling him Walder the Small.
At Winterfell he becomes friends with Rickon Stark, though he gets along with neither Bran nor the Reed children traveling with him. He wins the game of 'Lord of the Crossing' often enough, and at the harvest feast he can be seen training alongside knights come from White Harbor. When word arrives that Ser Stevron Frey has died, Walder the Small argues with his cousin over who inherits the Twins, neither showing any grief for their lost kinsman; Osha says the nickname suits him perfectly — he's only big on the outside.
When Ramsay Snow sacks Winterfell, both Walder the Small and his cousin are taken captive.
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The Twins
Letter Against Theon
After the fall of Winterfell, a letter goes out from the Twins in the name of Walder the Small and his cousin, laying the sack and the burning at Theon Greyjoy's door. Lothar Frey carries that account to Robb Stark, who accepts it as true.
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With the Boltons
Ramsay's Squire
Walder the Small becomes Ramsay Bolton's squire, and over time he starts behaving more and more like him, unsettling both Theon Greyjoy and his own cousin.
When the Frey delegation arrives at White Harbor to deliver Lord Wyman Manderly's son Wendel's remains, it is Rhaegar Frey who proposes him as a husband for Wylla Manderly.
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Death
Walder the Small's body turns up among the ruins of Winterfell after Ramsay Bolton's wedding to the girl presented as Arya Stark. Theon Greyjoy suspects Mance Rayder and his spearwives, who deny it; according to his cousin, he had gone looking for a White Harbor knight he'd won a coin from at dice. Hosteen Frey lays the killing, or the order for it, at Wyman Manderly's door, and Wyman answers without admitting anything: 'Though perhaps it was a mercy. Had he lived, he would have grown up to be a Frey.'
The answer enrages Hosteen, who attacks Wyman: the brawl ends with eight dead, six from White Harbor and two Freys, and only Bolton's men stepping in keeps it from turning into a battle inside Winterfell.
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Family tree
The family of Walder Frey (son of Merrett)
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Parents
Siblings
Unions
None recorded
Children
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People in their story
- Ramsay BoltonAppears in Ward at Winterfell, Ramsay's Squire, Death
- Theon GreyjoyAppears in Letter Against Theon, Ramsay's Squire, Death
- Wyman ManderlyAppears in Ramsay's Squire, Death
- Catelyn StarkAppears in Ward at Winterfell
- Rickon StarkAppears in Ward at Winterfell
- OshaAppears in Ward at Winterfell
- Stevron FreyAppears in Ward at Winterfell
- Lothar FreyAppears in Letter Against Theon
- Robb StarkAppears in Letter Against Theon
- Rhaegar FreyAppears in Ramsay's Squire
- Wylla ManderlyAppears in Ramsay's Squire
- Wendel ManderlyAppears in Ramsay's Squire
- Arya StarkAppears in Death
- Hosteen FreyAppears in Death
Appearances
By work
| Work | Format | Where it is told |
|---|---|---|
| A Game of Thrones | Book | Ward at Winterfell |
| A Clash of Kings | Book | Ward at Winterfell |
| A Storm of Swords | Book | Letter Against Theon |
| A Feast for Crows | Book | Ramsay's Squire |
| A Dance with Dragons | Book | Ramsay's Squire, Death |
Books and show
Where they differ
- Books only: Ward at Winterfell, Letter Against Theon, Ramsay's Squire, Death
| Show | Books | |
|---|---|---|
| Status | — | Dead |
| Died | — | 300 AC · Winterfell |
| Appears in | — | A Game of Thrones · A Clash of Kings · A Storm of Swords · A Feast for Crows · A Dance with Dragons |
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